True raw emotions.

Today I want to speak about suicide. Yesterday someone who I have never met and someone who I don’t even know killed himself. I have never even talked to this person and he had no idea that I even existed but still, this death has impacted me. What else would you except when he impacted my life while still living?

Today I want to speak about suicide but I won’t. I don’t think I can. And that’s why I will tell you a small story.

This is a story of young Viivi who was always lost in her life and who didn’t feel like she belonged. This is a story of someone who found peace and way to continue from listening to music. And then when time went by this changes to a story of her finding a best friend through this strange world of listening to music from bands that you can’t even understand.

It starts at primary school. I can’t remember how. I see a video of band singing language I can’t understand and they are dancing almost too perfectly. It’s odd and new but still enchanting. Weeks, months and years go by me listening to music by myself. At some point, it’s not just the music and amazing videos. I start to watch reality shows, dramas and I remember all members of these bands by name.

I still have no idea what they are saying but I don’t care. I don’t need to understand to enjoy the music.

Then I go to high school and I meet someone who shares my interest. We become friends, travel to concerts, laugh for the silly reality shows and before anything else enjoy the music. It’s a magical time of my life. It’s so easy to be happy. When your own life doesn’t feel right, you can just make yourself to forget everything. Music takes all your worries away and these silly but talented people performing it can always bring a smile to your face.

Years start running faster and my life is changing. I find something else. Traveling, writing blogs and living my life. There is no time for everything but I never forget. When I open Spotify I still listen to kpop more often than not. Even one photo or one memory from the time of my life can make me delighted. It was my youth and it’s still my future. You never truly get over the things you have once loved and today I can see it so clearly.

Yesterday I was messaging with my friend totally normally and then out of nowhere, she asked me did I know why the internet was full of sad Jonghyun. I didn’t. It took a while and then she told me that Jjong had committed suicide. It didn’t sink in first. I haven’t been actively following what happens with Shinee for a long time but they are still one of the bands closest to my heart. I have cried, I have laughed, I have lived listening to their songs.

Shinee was one of the first bands I fell in love with. And no I don’t speak about kpop. I speak about bands generally in all music categories. There are about million memories I could share now because my mind is right now full of them.

Being fifteen and laughing at Amigo because in Finnish the song sounds like they are singing over and over again that they want to fuck. Dancing and singing RingDingDong alone in my room. Being addicted to so many of their songs that it is not even funny. Crying while to The Reason even if I only could understand the words from translations. Still remembering the words of Sherlock even if it has been years.

And lastly listening to Tell Me What To Do over and over again just last week in New York when I was feeling a little bit homesick. Even now it’s kpop and music that makes me survive the hardest parts of my life. Even now after years, it’s Shinee. It will always be Shinee.



10 Songs I Listened Today

Because the clock is already 9pm and I still have over hour of travelling ahead of me, today’s 10 things post is going to be short one. Here is 10 songs I have listened today (more than ten times…). So shorter said 10 songs I’m currently addicted to.


1.Alvaro Soler: Sofia

2. James TW: When You Love Someone

How can someone write cute song about divorce? Well this one has succeeded greatly.

Sometimes moms and dads fall out of love
Sometimes two homes are better than one
Some things you can’t tell your sister cause she’s still too young
Yeah you’ll understands
When you love someone

3. BTS: Am I Wrong

It’s unusual for me to like band’s all songs but BTS is exception. I literally love all their songs. Powerful pop/rap songs with meaningful lyrics and amazing performances/music videos are something I keep enjoying song after song.

4. Evelina, Mikael Gabriel: Honey

4. ALMA: Karma

I already mentioned this song once before but yes I’m still totally hooked to it! Powerful womans have been currently my favorite music genre.

6. Blackpink: BoomBayah

7. Ariana Grande: Problem

I think everyone has heard this song? I can’t even explain why I’m still listening it. This song just is my kind of music. Strong and funny.

8. Bea Miller: Young Blood

And the voices will get loud
If you never learn to shut them out
If you’re lost you can be found
If you follow me until you hear the sound

9. Sanni: Mörköjä

Of course I had to include some Finnish music to my list. Sanni’s new album is pure magic so deciding one of her songs wasn’t so hard. You can google the songs lyrics in English but basically I like the story the song is telling. Unconditional love where someone loves the singer despite her not loving herself.

10. Julie Bergan: Arigato


I’m always trying to find new music to listen. I literally like every kind of music so please recommend me your favorite songs! Who knows, maybe someday I will make top 10 list of songs recommended for me.

And if you are new here, hello! This blog is for everything random and I publish list of 10 even more random things every Sunday. If you want to see my main blog you can find it from and like its name says there I write about my travels.


With love

Viivi Severina